
Ice Melting from Tears of Pain
The cat Dracosha, which Margarita Drobiazko and Povilas Vanagas have had ever since they got married, is not the only one to join the ice-dancers in the celebration of their 6th wedding anniversary. The sportsmen's house near Moscow has become a shelter for many stray animals - they are symbols of love for those who have been hurt in their lives. When her husband takes their cat into his arms and fondles her as if she was a child, Margarita imagines him caressing his own child in the very same way. Margarita's dream is to give birth to two children and to adopt a third one. Nothing could be more important to her than making at least one child happy. Classical music is playing softly in Margarita and Povilas' apartment situated But for the ice-dancing career, Margarita would happily do interior design. Now
she does it only very rarely. Besides the Vilnius apartment, Rita has designed
their house near Moscow. But there's one thing you can be sure about: if you
come round today, it does not mean the house will look the way it looked the day
before. Rita loves rearranging the furniture and does it all the time. Povilas
sometimes even gets cross with me if I want to move a heavy bed, for example. Other Margarita's passions include ballroom dancing and costume design. She also
dotes on animals, and would be very glad to work with them, if one could make a
living from this kind of job. She cannot walk past a stray cat or dog in the
street: she has to bring them home. Once in her Vilnius yard she found three
blind kittens who could hardly breathe.
Rita took them to a veterinary clinic and paid huge money for their reatment.
In the end, one of the kittens stayed with the veterinary surgeon, and the other Povilas Vanagas is no less kind-hearted than his wife. He spent several years
looking after an old lady who was nearly blind and who he was staying with in
the beginning of his career. He used to buy her food and medicines, and protect
her from the neighbours' suspicious looks. The old lady died more than four
years ago. At least, thanks to Povilas' care, she could live comfortably" -
Rita says, looking at her husband with tenderness. For a moment or two,
Margarita says nothing as if dreaming about something. Povilas will make a
lovely dad. Now all of his tenderness is for our animals. I'm pleased to see him
take the cat into his arms and play with her for hours, fondling her as if she
were a child." No Lithuanian. That was a decision Margarita made quite a long time ago. When
she was 17, neither of them thought their partnership would last. Povilas did
not want to join the army, because they could send him wherever they wanted to.
It was easier for him to join
the Moscow CSCA skating club. Rita didn't have a partner at that time, either,
thus she saw no point in learning Lithuanian. Why on earth should I learn it if
I live in Moscow anyway, and stay in Lithuania only for a few weeks a year? In 1990 Lithuania gained its independence and the couple even started to think
which country to represent. But there was no choice for Rita - a patriot to his
bone, Povilas refused point-blank to be in the Russian team. Rita agreed to
represent Lithuania because they were making more and more progress. But
Lithuanian bureaucrats would not let Rita and Povilas represent the country at
the Olympics of 1992 that took place in Albertville;it was the International
Olympic Committee that gave them the chance to go to the Olympic Games. When
Albertville Competitions were over, the press demanded that Margarita spoke
Lithuanian with them. Since then, she has always been asked whether she can
speak the language at all. Rita nods: I've decided not to speak Lithuanian in
public, ever. First they humiliate me, and then demand that I speak Lithuanian.
It comes in quite handy, though - I can understand everything people say, though Margarita's second wedding was quite a different one. In 2000, getting married at a Moscow registration office and giving her wedding oath, Rita believed this marriage would be for life. Her family was crying looking at Rita dressed in white and Povilas hugging her tenderly. Rita assures us she has never even dreamt of a wedding; she has just always
known she would have a family of her own one day. Neither has she ever tried to
imagine what her wedding dress will look like: ever since she was a kid, they
have made her new costumes for competitions, done her hair and put on her
make-up, so she gradually stopped being
interested in that. After having worried for so many years of what I would look But it took Rita and Povilas quite a lot of time to decide to be together and Why has Margarita fallen in love with her partner? First of all, he loves me Margarita had never even suspected how Povilas felt about her till he said it After her partner's declaration of love, Margarita started thinking of what Povilas' words gave Margarita a lot to think about. Povilas is quite a Knowing how Povilas felt about her, Rita started spending more and more time with him. Povilas was a real gentleman, indeed: he took his beloved woman out to restaurants, made her gifts, but the thing that made Rita fall for him was his tenderness. Feelings for her partner grew very slowly in Rita's heart. That was no love at
first sight: she just realized that one day he could leave her life forever. Rita can feel her husband really cares for her. He doesn't express his love Lithuanians like to see a cold and practical lady in Margarita. But how can a Once Rita wanted to do parachute jumping and even took special classes, but she had to go to competitions when her very first jump was due. Rita is not afraid of heights at all - this is probably something she has taken from her father who used to serve as a military pilot and then an arctic pilot. Rita's mother used to work in the sphere of trade for a long time. She is now 64 and her health is quite delicate. She largely spends her time running her daughter and son-in-law's house and likes to look after her kitchen garden. Rita's father is 68 and he runs the ice-dancers'affairs in Moscow. Andrei, her brother, is 44, he used to play hockey and went in for boxing, but now works as a private driver. Family is something very important for Rita. Apart from her husband, her parents and her brother are the most trustworthy people in the world, people she could truly rely on, though she has always had many friends, too. The ice dancers make friends quickly: they don't even notice themselves the way they arrange a dinner with the veterinary surgeon who treated their animals or the banker who is running their affairs. How would Margarita decribe herself? I think I've changed more than once in my life. The environment affects even the strongest people. For example, I started seeing patriotic dreams after just one week in Korea! In Korea, patriotism is in the very air - people start crying when they see their leader, though life is so hard there! People wear Communist badges and military uniform. That was absolutely awful. And what would have happened if we had stayed there a whole year? Maybe, I'd have started behaving the same way?" - Margarita thinks aloud. But no environment will change a genuine lady in her: Margarita's wardrobe is full of smart clothes. I like smart clothes and beautiful jewelry. I don't like putting on make-up very much, though, because I always have to put on a lot of it for competitions. That is why arranging my hair and putting on make-up is a true tragedy for me.
We often spend our summers in the USA and go to a lot of
parties, so I take a lot of nice clothes before going there. I like dressing
differently every day. Americans have got a poor taste, and they are absolutely
delighted to see Europeans wearing beautiful clothes. I do not care for labels
and am usually happy with cheap clothes. I just want them to look good. I don't
have anything from, say, Dolce Gabbana or Versace - I can see no point in |